Please keep in mind, this is just a list of things that are against my values, does not mean that they are wrong or anything!!
- Not keep a promise one has made
Number 1 rule of my life. If you promised something, DO IT. And do it well.
If you know you can’t do it, then don’t make that promise on the first place! It can hurt the person you promised a lot more than you think.
Not keeping promise includes being late to everything!
- Gossiping behind someone’s back
You have a problem about someone? Face them directly. Don’t talk behind their back. You have a question you need to clarify? Get it clarified. Don’t go behind someone and spread rumors.
- Hygiene, Cleanliness
I don’t want to say just boys have this problem because I have seen a lot of scarily dirty, messy girls rooms…
Just eh, do laundry regularly… (does not mean once a semester!) and clean up your stuff once in a while… Shower! Please shower also!
- Girls - Constant thought of dieting, or eat very little because you are afraid to be fat
I understand there is a component where the media puts a lot of pressure on girls to look very fit, actually, unhealthily thin all the time. But it still bothers me when girls always mention that they have eat less! To me, real dieting includes exercise, not just eat less. Besides, my moral is that - if you’re not eating now, you’ll regret as you can’t eat those less healthy food when you’re 60!
- (Associate more to Boys) - Overuse of swear words, unhealthy amount of alcohol consumption, (drugs is forever a no)
I understand when people swear once in a while, I do too. But when people swear in every sentence, it bothers me. If you have no other better things to say, don’t say it; if you don’t have better vocabulary, then… please learn some!
Sorry, I am just not a fan of the college alcohol culture in America. We can talk more about that another time.